Golden rules

Golden Rules.

Who is helping you, don’t forget them.
Who is loving you don’t hate them.
Who is trusting you, don’t cheat them.

The ones who love you will never leave you. Even if there are hundred reasons to give up, they will find one reason to hold on.

Everyone is good to you till you expect nothing from them and you are too good to them till you fulfil their expectations.

Well wishers are like street lamps. They cannot make our distance shorter but they can lighten our path and make the journey easier.Let’s appreciate our well wishers.

Many people don’t look for the truth, they are in search of those people who will agree with them.The person who gets angry a lot also loves a lot;
Because red is the not the colour only of anger, it is also the colour of love.

True people never go out from our life easily. But when it happens, they always come back at right time without expectation.There is no point blaming anyone in your life.

Good people can give you joy. Not so good people can give you experience.

Worst people can give you a lesson and the best people can give you beautiful memories.

Life is about balance.
Be kind, but don’t let people abuse you.

Trust, but don’t be deceived. Be content, but never stop improving yourself.

Rule of Life

Everyone will not get everything, this is the RULE of LIFE, don’t try to get which is not yours. But don’t dare to loose which is yours.

BEHAVIOR is Sometimes Greater Than Knowledge, Because In Life There Are Many Situations Where Knowledge Fails But Behaviour Can Handle EVERYTHING.

Life is Too Short. So
Hug a Little Longer , Love A Little Stronger , Forgive a Little Sooner & Smile a Little Sweeter.

“Choices, Chances & Changes
are basic reminders of Life..
We need to make a Choice to take a Chance, otherwise our life will never Change .”

There is Always Another Chance for Everything in Life. But the Fact is there is No Chance of Another Life.

Small Stories #42

WHAT TASTE DO YOU LEAVE IN OTHERS’ MOUTHS?

There was an old man who was admitted in a hospital.

A young man visited him every day, and sat with him for more than one hour. He helped him eat his food, and to take his shower. Then he took him walking in the garden of the hospital. After that he brought him back to his room and helped him lie down.

He used to go away after reassuring himself that the old man is doing well.

One day the nurse entered the old man’s room, to give him medicine and inspect his condition, and she said to him:
“May the Lord be always gracious to your kind and caring son. Every day he visits you and shows great care.”

The old man looked at her and closed his eyes and said to her:
“I wish it was one of my children. This is an orphan from the neighborhood where we live. I met him one day in the past, crying at the door of a Church, after his father died. I comforted him and bought for him some candy. I neither saw him nor talked to him for a very long time by.

When he grew up and came to discover where my wife and I were living. He visited us every day to inspect our conditions. When I later fell sick, he took my old wife to his home. He then started coming to the hospital to see my treatment everyday. One day I asked him: “My son why do you have to deal with us and care about us?”

He simply smiled and said:
“The taste of the candy is still in my mouth “

Small Stories #41

Love Incorporated

A newly married couple approached the Master to seek his blessings.

Master blessed: “May your children have best of teens.”

The couple was surprised as were those present.

The new bride could not hold herself back and asked ”Master we were married just last month, bless us so that our love lasts us a lifetime”

Master smiled” Love which is based on masculine/feminine polarity is mortal. Being attractive in nature its only purpose is to bring the poles together. It does not last much beyond that. Most flowers are temporary as having served their purpose they wither away.

Likewise the love that gives you the current blossom will last only for a few seasons. However there is another kind of love which if you nurture now, can last you a lifetime”.

So saying the master stopped. The young bride was too eager to allow Master his pause. She interrupted:

“What love is that, Sir”

“That is the slow motion love of a man women friendship.” Master replied. “ If you aim to be lovers based on your natural chemistry together, you will find your relationship gone when passion wanes. However if you utilize this honeymoon period of attraction to lay foundation of a genuine friendship, another kind of love, based on empathy and caring will start to secrete in your life. It will take time and efforts to actualize, will not be dramatic, smooth or even passionate but it will be enduring. Remember what draws you to your partner initially is not what keeps you there so you must put efforts to build its alternate.”

“How can this man women friendship be created, sire” the man wanted to know.

“In two ways: in action, by doing things together and in emotion, by genuinely liking the being of other person, on an as it is basis. So when you let your partner flower into their own being without their having to change for you and create a dynamic where sharing is reciprocal, your marriage is based on a solid foundation. That’s the kind of love you want to achieve in your marriage.” Master said.

“What of teenage thing you mentioned master” Another man wanted to know.

“A parental relation which is based on genuine friendship with each other, is often the best state for the kids teenage. Since this friendship takes time to develop, so adopting it as a mission of your marriage” To give best teenage to our kids” often keeps the marriage on the right path & hence that blessing”. Master closed with a chuckle.

How to manage stress

Top Habits that Help You Manage Your Stress .

  1. Get in the habit of gratitude.
    Our attitude comes from our emotions and our emotions come from our thoughts. Thinking about what we’re grateful for and what we’re good at can keep things positive. It’s not about shying away from what’s challenging you; it’s about approaching life from a place of strength and not as a victim.
  2. Get in the habit of creating.
    Experiment with a new recipe in the kitchen, write a poem, bang a drum, do a craft, take a dance class or do something else that feels creative to you.
  3. Get in the habit of putting your stuff away.
    Physical clutter can really impact on mental, emotional and physical health. Get rid of things that don’t make you happy when you look at them. Organize your stuff. Find a place for everything and keep it there.
  4. Get in the habit of breathing.
    This is the simplest and quickest way to relax yourself in a
    stressful situation. The minute you focus on your breathing it automatically gets slower and deeper.
  5. Get in the habit of daydreaming.
    Take yourself away on an imaginary holiday. Just close your eyes and go! Picture somewhere you’ve been or somewhere you’ve dreamed of.
  6. Get in the habit of giggling.
    Laugh out loud every day.
    Don’t let your stress get the better of you! Which one of these strategies can you apply this week to manage your stress?

Advance Happy New Year 2021

Whatever comes your way as you journey into the New Year, remember the lesson of this story…👇

A little boy and his father visited the country store, and upon leaving the store, the owner of the store offered the little boy some free Sweets… “Get a hand full of Sweets”, the merchant said to the boy.
The boy just stood there looking up at his father. The owner repeated himself:- “Son get a hand full of Sweets… it’s free.” Again the boy did not move, continuing to look up in the face of his father.
Finally the father reached into the candy jar and got a hand full of Sweets and gave it to his son.
As they walked back home, the father stopped and asked his son why he did not grab a hand full of the free candy. The boy with a big smile on his face looked into the face of his father and said:- “Because I know that your HAND is BIGGER than mine.”

So, whatever your needs are for 2021, please place them in the GOD’S HAND IN HEAVEN,* because HIS HAND is BIGGER THAN YOURS.

Have a blessed time as you journey towards the new year.

My Prayers and Best Wishes for you and your household.

Managing stress

Top Habits that Help You Manage Your Stress .

  1. Get in the habit of gratitude.
    Our attitude comes from our emotions and our emotions come from our thoughts. Thinking about what we’re grateful for and what we’re good at can keep things positive. It’s not about shying away from what’s challenging you; it’s about approaching life from a place of strength and not as a victim.
  2. Get in the habit of creating.
    Experiment with a new recipe in the kitchen, write a poem, bang a drum, do a craft, take a dance class or do something else that feels creative to you.
  3. Get in the habit of putting your stuff away.
    Physical clutter can really impact on mental, emotional and physical health. Get rid of things that don’t make you happy when you look at them. Organize your stuff. Find a place for everything and keep it there.
  4. Get in the habit of breathing.
    This is the simplest and quickest way to relax yourself in a
    stressful situation. The minute you focus on your breathing it automatically gets slower and deeper.
  5. Get in the habit of daydreaming.
    Take yourself away on an imaginary holiday. Just close your eyes and go! Picture somewhere you’ve been or somewhere you’ve dreamed of.
  6. Get in the habit of giggling.
    Laugh out loud every day.
    Don’t let your stress get the better of you! Which one of these strategies can you apply this week to manage your stress?

Tree analogy

I have this tree analogy when I think of people in my life, be it friends, family, acquaintances, employees, co-workers, whomever…
They­ are all placed inside what I call my tree test.
It goes like this:

LEAF PEOPLE
Some people come into your life and they are like leaves on a tree. They are only there for a season. You can’t depend on them or count on them because they are weak and only there to give you shade. Like leaves, they are there to take what they need and as soon as it gets cold or a wind blows in your life they are gone. You can’t be angry at them, it’s just who they are.

BRANCH PEOPLE
There are some people who come into your life and they are like branches on a tree. They are stronger than leaves, but you have to be careful with them. They will stick around through most seasons, but if you go through a storm or two in your life it’s possible that you could lose them.
Most times they break away when it’s tough. Although they are stronger than leaves, you have to test them out before you run out there and put all your weight on them. In most cases they can’t handle too much weight. But again, you can’t be mad with them, it’s just who they are.

ROOT PEOPLE
If you can find some people in your life who are like the roots of a tree then you have found something special. Like the roots of a tree, they are hard to find because they are not trying to be seen. Their only job is to hold you up and help you live a strong and healthy life. If you thrive, they are happy. They stay low key and don’t let the world know that they are there. And if you go through an awful storm they will hold you up. Their job is to hold you up, come what may, and to nourish you, feed you and water you.

Just as a tree has many limbs and many leaves, there are few roots.
Look at your own life. How many leaves, branches and roots do you have?
What are you in other people’s lives?

THANK GOD FOR ROOTS!

Tree analogy

I have this tree analogy when I think of people in my life, be it friends, family, acquaintances, employees, co-workers, whomever…
They­ are all placed inside what I call my tree test.
It goes like this:

LEAF PEOPLE
Some people come into your life and they are like leaves on a tree. They are only there for a season. You can’t depend on them or count on them because they are weak and only there to give you shade. Like leaves, they are there to take what they need and as soon as it gets cold or a wind blows in your life they are gone. You can’t be angry at them, it’s just who they are.

BRANCH PEOPLE
There are some people who come into your life and they are like branches on a tree. They are stronger than leaves, but you have to be careful with them. They will stick around through most seasons, but if you go through a storm or two in your life it’s possible that you could lose them.
Most times they break away when it’s tough. Although they are stronger than leaves, you have to test them out before you run out there and put all your weight on them. In most cases they can’t handle too much weight. But again, you can’t be mad with them, it’s just who they are.

ROOT PEOPLE
If you can find some people in your life who are like the roots of a tree then you have found something special. Like the roots of a tree, they are hard to find because they are not trying to be seen. Their only job is to hold you up and help you live a strong and healthy life. If you thrive, they are happy. They stay low key and don’t let the world know that they are there. And if you go through an awful storm they will hold you up. Their job is to hold you up, come what may, and to nourish you, feed you and water you.

Just as a tree has many limbs and many leaves, there are few roots.
Look at your own life. How many leaves, branches and roots do you have?
What are you in other people’s lives?

THANK GOD FOR ROOTS!

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