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Common Social rules

SOME COMMON SOCIAL RULES FOR BETTER RELATIONSHIP.
(A better etiquette or mannerism collected)

  1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;
  2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the other person remembers lending it to you. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes;
  3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner. If possible ask them to order their choice of food for you;
  4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don’t you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;
  5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;
  6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;
  7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what’s 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative;
  8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;
  9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you’re;
  10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.
  11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;
  12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;
  13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;
  14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors’ appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say “I hope you’re okay”. Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they’ll do so without your inquisitiveness;
  15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect;
  16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude;
  17. Never give advice until you’re asked;
  18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary;
  19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly – just stay out of it;
  20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and
  21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don’t talk about your children in the midst of the barren.
  22. APPRECIATION remains the easiest way of getting what you don’t have.

Sunflower


Loved this message so sharing :

Sunflowers 🌻 turn according to the position of the sun. In other words, they “chase the light.” You might already know this, but there is another fact that you probably do not know!

Have you ever wondered what happens on cloudy and rainy days when the sun is completely covered by clouds?🤔

This is an interesting question.Isn’t it?

Perhaps you think the sunflower withers or turns its head towards the ground. Is this what crossed your mind?

Well, that’s incorrect!

This is what happens?

They turn towards each other to share their energy.🌻✨🌻

Nature’s perfection is amazing. Now let’s apply this reflection to our lives. Many people may become low-spirited, and the most vulnerable ones, sometimes, become depressed.
How about following the example of the beautiful sunflowers 🌻i.e.”Supporting and empowering each other”. Nature has so much to teach us.

Wishing everyone a “Sun flower”🌻 trait of turning towards each other on their cloudy and gloomy days.

Spread goodness…

Have Faith

Wake up to happiness.When we believe in ourselves and what we are doing faith grows. When we live with faith we worry less. Believe in what you are doing. Believe in today’s opportunities. Things will come together. Faith generates courage, enthusiasm, determination and enables us to move forward in contrast to self-doubt and worrying about how things will happen etc. When we have faith we don’t need to know every detail in advance. For example when we get on a plane without knowing the pilot we are living with faith. Have faith and Become free from fear and doubt. Fears of different kinds are one of the main obstacles in experiencing contentment.

Golden rules

Golden Rules.

Who is helping you, don’t forget them.
Who is loving you don’t hate them.
Who is trusting you, don’t cheat them.

The ones who love you will never leave you. Even if there are hundred reasons to give up, they will find one reason to hold on.

Everyone is good to you till you expect nothing from them and you are too good to them till you fulfil their expectations.

Well wishers are like street lamps. They cannot make our distance shorter but they can lighten our path and make the journey easier.Let’s appreciate our well wishers.

Many people don’t look for the truth, they are in search of those people who will agree with them.The person who gets angry a lot also loves a lot;
Because red is the not the colour only of anger, it is also the colour of love.

True people never go out from our life easily. But when it happens, they always come back at right time without expectation.There is no point blaming anyone in your life.

Good people can give you joy. Not so good people can give you experience.

Worst people can give you a lesson and the best people can give you beautiful memories.

Life is about balance.
Be kind, but don’t let people abuse you.

Trust, but don’t be deceived. Be content, but never stop improving yourself.

Rule of Life

Everyone will not get everything, this is the RULE of LIFE, don’t try to get which is not yours. But don’t dare to loose which is yours.

BEHAVIOR is Sometimes Greater Than Knowledge, Because In Life There Are Many Situations Where Knowledge Fails But Behaviour Can Handle EVERYTHING.

Life is Too Short. So
Hug a Little Longer , Love A Little Stronger , Forgive a Little Sooner & Smile a Little Sweeter.

“Choices, Chances & Changes
are basic reminders of Life..
We need to make a Choice to take a Chance, otherwise our life will never Change .”

There is Always Another Chance for Everything in Life. But the Fact is there is No Chance of Another Life.

Small Stories #42

WHAT TASTE DO YOU LEAVE IN OTHERS’ MOUTHS?

There was an old man who was admitted in a hospital.

A young man visited him every day, and sat with him for more than one hour. He helped him eat his food, and to take his shower. Then he took him walking in the garden of the hospital. After that he brought him back to his room and helped him lie down.

He used to go away after reassuring himself that the old man is doing well.

One day the nurse entered the old man’s room, to give him medicine and inspect his condition, and she said to him:
“May the Lord be always gracious to your kind and caring son. Every day he visits you and shows great care.”

The old man looked at her and closed his eyes and said to her:
“I wish it was one of my children. This is an orphan from the neighborhood where we live. I met him one day in the past, crying at the door of a Church, after his father died. I comforted him and bought for him some candy. I neither saw him nor talked to him for a very long time by.

When he grew up and came to discover where my wife and I were living. He visited us every day to inspect our conditions. When I later fell sick, he took my old wife to his home. He then started coming to the hospital to see my treatment everyday. One day I asked him: “My son why do you have to deal with us and care about us?”

He simply smiled and said:
“The taste of the candy is still in my mouth “

Small Stories #41

Love Incorporated

A newly married couple approached the Master to seek his blessings.

Master blessed: “May your children have best of teens.”

The couple was surprised as were those present.

The new bride could not hold herself back and asked ”Master we were married just last month, bless us so that our love lasts us a lifetime”

Master smiled” Love which is based on masculine/feminine polarity is mortal. Being attractive in nature its only purpose is to bring the poles together. It does not last much beyond that. Most flowers are temporary as having served their purpose they wither away.

Likewise the love that gives you the current blossom will last only for a few seasons. However there is another kind of love which if you nurture now, can last you a lifetime”.

So saying the master stopped. The young bride was too eager to allow Master his pause. She interrupted:

“What love is that, Sir”

“That is the slow motion love of a man women friendship.” Master replied. “ If you aim to be lovers based on your natural chemistry together, you will find your relationship gone when passion wanes. However if you utilize this honeymoon period of attraction to lay foundation of a genuine friendship, another kind of love, based on empathy and caring will start to secrete in your life. It will take time and efforts to actualize, will not be dramatic, smooth or even passionate but it will be enduring. Remember what draws you to your partner initially is not what keeps you there so you must put efforts to build its alternate.”

“How can this man women friendship be created, sire” the man wanted to know.

“In two ways: in action, by doing things together and in emotion, by genuinely liking the being of other person, on an as it is basis. So when you let your partner flower into their own being without their having to change for you and create a dynamic where sharing is reciprocal, your marriage is based on a solid foundation. That’s the kind of love you want to achieve in your marriage.” Master said.

“What of teenage thing you mentioned master” Another man wanted to know.

“A parental relation which is based on genuine friendship with each other, is often the best state for the kids teenage. Since this friendship takes time to develop, so adopting it as a mission of your marriage” To give best teenage to our kids” often keeps the marriage on the right path & hence that blessing”. Master closed with a chuckle.