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SOME COMMON SOCIAL RULES FOR BETTER RELATIONSHIP.
(A better etiquette or mannerism collected)

1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;
2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the other person remembers lending it to you. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes;
3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner. If possible ask them to order their choice of food for you;
4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don’t you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;
5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;
6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;
7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what’s 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative;
8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;
9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you’re;
10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.
11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;
12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;
13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;
14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors’ appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say “I hope you’re okay”. Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they’ll do so without your inquisitiveness;
15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect;
16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude;
17. Never give advice until you’re asked;
18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary;
19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly – just stay out of it;
20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and
21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don’t talk about your children in the midst of the barren.
22. APPRECIATION remains the easiest way of getting what you don’t have.

Loved this message so sharing :

Sunflowers 🌻 turn according to the position of the sun. In other words, they “chase the light.” You might already know this, but there is another fact that you probably do not know!

Have you ever wondered what happens on cloudy and rainy days when the sun is completely covered by clouds?🤔

This is an interesting question.Isn’t it?

Perhaps you think the sunflower withers or turns its head towards the ground. Is this what crossed your mind?

Well, that’s incorrect!

This is what happens?

They turn towards each other to share their energy.🌻✨🌻

Nature’s perfection is amazing. Now let’s apply this reflection to our lives. Many people may become low-spirited, and the most vulnerable ones, sometimes, become depressed.
How about following the example of the beautiful sunflowers 🌻i.e.”Supporting and empowering each other”. Nature has so much to teach us.

Wishing everyone a “Sun flower”🌻 trait of turning towards each other on their cloudy and gloomy days.

Spread goodness…

Wake up to happiness.When we believe in ourselves and what we are doing faith grows. When we live with faith we worry less. Believe in what you are doing. Believe in today’s opportunities. Things will come together. Faith generates courage, enthusiasm, determination and enables us to move forward in contrast to self-doubt and worrying about how things will happen etc. When we have faith we don’t need to know every detail in advance. For example when we get on a plane without knowing the pilot we are living with faith. Have faith and Become free from fear and doubt. Fears of different kinds are one of the main obstacles in experiencing contentment.

Golden Rules.

Who is helping you, don’t forget them.
Who is loving you don’t hate them.
Who is trusting you, don’t cheat them.

The ones who love you will never leave you. Even if there are hundred reasons to give up, they will find one reason to hold on.

Everyone is good to you till you expect nothing from them and you are too good to them till you fulfil their expectations.

Well wishers are like street lamps. They cannot make our distance shorter but they can lighten our path and make the journey easier.Let’s appreciate our well wishers.

Many people don’t look for the truth, they are in search of those people who will agree with them.The person who gets angry a lot also loves a lot;
Because red is the not the colour only of anger, it is also the colour of love.

True people never go out from our life easily. But when it happens, they always come back at right time without expectation.There is no point blaming anyone in your life.

Good people can give you joy. Not so good people can give you experience.

Worst people can give you a lesson and the best people can give you beautiful memories.

Life is about balance.
Be kind, but don’t let people abuse you.

Trust, but don’t be deceived. Be content, but never stop improving yourself.